Please, what should I do? Give me advice because I don't know what to do.

Question

Hello, my father and brother are atheists, while my mother and sister are Muslims. I am an atheist myself and do not believe in any sect or religion. In my opinion, my mother and sister are foolish because they believe in various Muslim fairy tales, the Quran, and witchcraft. They consider themselves holy women and call themselves psychics. Although they can barely read Arabic, they are convinced that they are protected by angels and can send angels for protection, healing, and the removal of witchcraft, thinking that they can recite a sura from the Quran.

My mother and sister are convinced that my paternal grandmother practices witchcraft, as do my aunt, her daughters, and her husband. They think that if there are health issues, problems at my father’s work, or money troubles, it’s the result of someone’s witchcraft. I don’t believe in this and don’t want to live with these people — my parents and sister.

I don’t want to live with my father because I consider him a loser. He is already old, just like my mother. My brother moved to America and doesn’t want to come back. My sister is divorced, and she has a ***** who is in the third grade. I don’t want to live with my family — they oppress me, mock me, and torment me every day. My brother is 38 years old, he left for America and doesn’t plan to return.

I suffer from psychological and computer addiction, I have vision problems, headaches, eye, neck, and spine pain, I feel irritation and tension in my eyes, and I also have memory and thinking issues. When I work at the computer or play games, after just half an hour, I start experiencing pain in my eyes, head, and neck. But my parents don’t have money, and I hate them. I don’t want to live near them or help them because I hate my father — he is a fascist, and I hate him.

I don’t know what to do. They mock me, laugh at me, say that I am sick and mentally ill, constantly discriminating against and tormenting me. They say negative things about me, that I need to marry a Muslim woman, that I hear voices, that I am stupid and mentally ill, and that I see invisible people and talk to them. My father is the head of the household, and my mother and sister report everything to him.

Last year, my father wanted to kick me out of the house and send me to a psychiatric hospital, but it’s not even a normal psychiatric hospital — everything there is abnormal. He claimed that I was a drug addict. I have health problems that started after working on the computer: computer addiction, computer vision syndrome, high myopia, complex myopic astigmatism, atrophy of the cortex in the frontal-parietal-temporal regions of the brain, a retrocerebellar arachnoid cyst, and indirect signs of moderate intracranial hypertension.

Answer 1

go away and live alone, damn, that's the best option

Answer 2

The best advice is, Don't give up bro. Try to get a job. Good luck

Answer 3

Well, have you tried getting closer to God? Have you ever tried learning about Islam from someone knowledgeable, not from your family? Give it a try, it's worth it. Trust me, if you become more religious, it will have a positive impact on you. Your family will definitely notice something like that, and it will change the way they treat you.

Comments

the persons suffering bcz of muslims and you tell him to get closer to islam.you are not very clever are you

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Muslims aren’t perfect, but Islam is. If you're blaming a whole religion for the actions of a few, that's ignorance. Maybe if you actually learned about it, you'd see that instead of making baseless assumptions.

Answer 4

Are you sure this is the right place to express yourself just because this site name is Hidden Answers?

Personally, I don't think you'll find anything that would definitely fix all your problem here. Don't ever expect you'll find a wise-monk-like digital friend that will give you advice on anything in the realm of internet, either this site or the other. Don't expect anything beneficial from it.

What should you do? Who cares about that? Who cares about your life problem? People here in Tor already sick and have tons of problem, mostly mentally. So welcome to the world of sick people. You may be one of those who thought the only way left for you to express yourself is not in the surface no more, but in the underworld. Society doesn't give a f*ck about you, so all left... the dark side? Nah, just some people that can't fulfill most of the society standards.

Advice? Go outside. Touch grass. Enjoy the sunlight and the sunset. Go farawaay to a place where there are no one to disturb you. Suicide? That's an option, but you're an atheist, so where do you think you'll go after you die? Maybe you'll just repeating life again and suffering the same sh!t? Lol, just don't.

I know this is long sh!t, and reading this your eye would probably suffer, but maybe I just can't bear people like you.

Save yourself money. If there's a chance to go outside, then go and make yourself a passport. Go to a country where you can start you life again with a new identity.

What about you health?  Stop using computers dumbass, if you're that addicted, then try to limit yourself a few hours day by day increasing that hour limit, if you're bored, then do something productive, idk, drawing, writing? Anything that could distracts you for a moment away from the screen. If that's not an option, go outside, run, exercise. Not also an option? Then exercise in your room, make yourself sweat, so when you sleep, you can have a goodnight sleep since you're tired of the exercises. Read books, gain yourself skills.

About your sh1tty family? Don't give a f*ck bout them. Just tell them that after spending years in front of your computer a mythical digital djinn just blessed you, he told you that by staring at the computer, it's the same as doing salat. If you're mother and sisters are muslims but they still believe in witchcraft, they would probably believe you lol. Jk jk.

You have the life, you have the option to what to do with your life. So does the others, if they have the option to mock you and say the negative things about you, you also have the option to defend yourself. But don't kill them, that'll only suffer their physical form. Just prove to them that they're wrong. About every negative thing they said about you, prove them wrong, and they'll suffer from embarassment for the rest of their life. You're a saint? Forgive them, that'd suffer them more.

You don't need to marry a Muslim woman, you can ignore those voices, you can learn and use your common sense, you can ignore those invisible people and try to have a light conversation with people, that other people can see too, if that's not a possible thing yet, talk with a cat or bird :3.

Bring yourself a motivation. Remind yourself of your past dreams, and things you already achieved in your life, gather all the experiences, to level yourself up, Use that experience to escape your situation. Get it together man, and win this life. It's not over yet. 

And as a theist myself, I'd say, that God is real man, it's just not all people could feel it nor want to feel it, and we ourselves that tends to abandon him instead of the reverse that most people believe.

Hope this helps... Again, I can't bear people like you.

Comments

I suffer from addiction — computer, internet, and gaming addiction. I had vision of -8.20 in my left eye and -7.20 in my right. I was diagnosed with high-degree myopia and complex myopic astigmatism, and I underwent vision correction surgery. Before the surgery, I had daily headaches, eye pain, pain in the back of my neck, and spine pain starting from morning until around 8-9 PM, after which I would fall asleep on my own. I have problems with thinking, imagination, perception, and memory. I feel unwell, and I have developed bad habits: masturbation to *****ography, smoking cigarettes, eating sugar and sweets (chocolate, cookies, ice cream), and drinking energy drinks and carbonated beverages.

I have problems with my eyes and vision: irritation, tension, fatigue, and a sensation as if there are impulses in my eyes. My vision worsens, then improves again, but I still don’t see 100%, and it worsens again, only to partially recover. I can’t sit in front of a computer for long or use my phone or tablet, because unnecessary thoughts come into my head — about *****, *****ography, games, movies, and series. I have computer, gaming, and ***** addiction, and I feel bad — I feel unwell, and these thoughts won’t leave my head.

I also have trouble hearing: when I hear people’s voices, I can’t clearly make out their words; I hear them poorly and don’t understand them. Additionally, I have tinnitus, body weakness, and heaviness in my head. MRI scans revealed signs of cortical atrophy in the frontal-parietal-temporal regions of the brain’s hemispheres, a retrocerebellar arachnoid cyst, and indirect signs of moderate intracranial hypertension.

Answer 5

your reality is directly influenced by your active thoughts and subconscious, change your thoughts and reprogram your subconscious and you will change your situation.